5/6/09
Yesterday I attended a funeral of a 22 year old ex-marine named Andrew Hengy.
Five months ago, friends of Andrew's family had reached out to me because of
"Semper Fi", my song about Andrew's friend, a deceased Iraq war vet and
former marine named Eric Hall. Through my contact at the Bethesda
Naval Hospital, I tried to help them get Andrew get back into the VA
system for help with the addictions he'd carried as a result of wounds he
sustained in Afghanistan. Plenty of folks did try to help, but the
hurt ran too deep. Andrew hung himself last week with Eric Hall's name and
RIP written on his chest. At the service, a choked up young marine in
full dress gave the shortest, most heart breaking eulogy I've ever heard. It
was something like...
"I wrote out something to say about Andrew but now it doesn't seem right to
read from a piece of paper.... Andrew was my best friend. One of the best
guys in our company. We were in combat together. We were in hospitals
together. He always had a smile on his face. He'd alway pick you up when you
were feeling down. The kind of guy who'd do anything for you. He'd help
anybody who needed him. Please remember how good he was!"
A documentary about the challenges facing returning combat veterans,
especially those dealing with post traumatic stress issues, is currently
being made by a woman named Nina Gilberti. I'm honored that because of my
song "Semper Fi ", Eric Hall's story will be told in the film. I've
also asked my friend Kris Kristofferson, a vet and former Army helicopter
pilot, to appear in the film, and he's kindly agreed. You can read
about the documentary at-
http://jamontoastproductions.com/_wsn/page4.html
They've told us for years that
you can't be against war and support the warrior. To me that's like saying
you can't be against house fires and still support the fire fighters.
Politicians set the buildings ablaze and for years now we've asked
these kids to run into the flames. Many of them came out of those buildings
on fire themselves. Many of them are still burning.